Yes, I said that. You may pick your Jaw up off the floor now.

Updated: Jun 7

I don’t know about you, but I too often get the question, “I am a Christian, will your teachings clash with my beliefs?” So, let’s back this up and have a heart to heart chat in honesty and sincerity. 


First off, I am a Christian, however, I typically first and foremost describe myself as a deeply spiritual person. I believe in the beauty and mystery of other religions and look to learn from them the beauty of what they see and what parts of their faith lay the foundation for a deep love of self, soul and Source because, after all, we are all of these.


Eh hem, did I just say we are all Source? Being a Christian, that may seem blasphemous at first glance, however in truth, it is all over the Christian learning text, the Bible, that we are of Source and Source is of us. Is it more than us, 1000%, but it is OF us. Every single one of us.


I know that is a massive statement and I hope if stirs some sort of deep thinking in you. To accept that you are of Source, God, Universe means that you must be masterful, magnificent, and made for so much more than you have been taught to settle for. Deep breath. Let that rest for a minute. You are amazing. I don’t need proof. I just look at your pedigree to know. Source (for me I also use the Big Man a.k.a God) is amazing. You are of Source, therefore you are amazing.

Enter stage left, the looming cloud of Social Programming, we’ll personalize s/he/it by calling it SP. This nasty bully SP can be a bit of a brut in teaching you false limitations and made up truths about who you are and what you are capable of doing. Well, just like in Charles Dickens infamous Christmas novel about Ebenezer Scrooge and the ghosts of Christmas Past, Present and Future, I am here to tell you that none of them are true, unless you believe them. It’s all your creation.


This, my dear new friend, is where our paths meet. I am here to remind you that you are Magnificent, Masterful and Made for so much more. Your life is your creation. Are you living the life of your dreams? Probably not if you attach too much of what our persnickety and pesky playmate SP has been telling you.


Just so you know we are in this together, I’m going to share only a few (of many) conflicting “truths” that have been pitched to me over my 45 years of living.

You’re too fat. You’re too thin. 

Your hair is too thin. 

Your hair is too perfect. 

You’re too tall. 

You’re too short. 

You’re too nice. 

You’re not nice enough. 

You’re selfish. 

You’re the kindest person I have ever met. 

I don’t like how your  smile makes your nose crinkle. 

Your smile is perfect. 

Your teeth are too white. 

Your teeth make me jealous. 

You’re bad at math. 

You’re pretty good at numbers.

You don’t know anything about business.

You have an amazing business sense. You’re very intuitive. 

You make bad decisions. 

I wish I made the choices you have made. 

You haven’t done enough with your life. 

You have done so much that being around you makes me hate my life…..


The list could go on for 45 more years, however you get the point. What is true to others, may be a truth that we take on and accepted as truth for ourselves. We are all guilty of doing it…. over and over again. 


Let me be the resounding yes in your life that you are Source and you are made for mastery. Your personal satisfaction with your life, your finances, your relationships, your viewpoint of your world and the experiences you create with anyone you come into contact with, is all yours to shift and evolve into something that you envision out of your mastery. 


Like a Fairy Godmother and her magic wand, you too can have the glass slippers that take you to the home you left but never really knew you were a part of. Let’s call it Source Land. 

You want more money…… poof. 

You want a soul mate … poof. 

You want to feel more connected to your kids? ….. poof

You want to feel beautiful in your skin and joyful in your thinking? …. poof

You want to live in a beautiful home that delights? …… poof

You want to feel less stress and more joy and peace in your life? ….. poof


You want someone to feed you grapes and someone else to massage your feet while a third person tells you how beautiful you are and sings love songs to you while George Clooney walks through the door to tell you that he has looked the world over for you and he finally found you?  ….. ahhhhh, just threw that in there to see if you were still paying attention.


The truth is, that is possible too. When you co-create with Source and call forth your wildest dreams the wildest things start to happen! Well, maybe just a look alike and not the real deal. I hope George is still happily married somewhere, feeding his wife grapes or doing something sexy. He’s too hot to waste that delish!


Ok, enough to chew on for now.


Until we connect again. Maybe take a few minutes and write down all the silly things you have been told about you that you have started to believe. Tomorrow, I’ll unpack why it’s all bullshit and how you can unpack your BS meter for good ole SP.


In the meantime,

B Joy

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